Your girlfriend broke up with you and you want her back. You want her back but she isn’t bothered about it. You keep thinking, would she ever come back or does she miss you like you miss her. But no matter how hard it sounds, there is nothing much you can do about it. You cannot make someone love you, by any means.
You opened your heart up to a person and now she’s not there anymore. Moreover, because she got her ex back. But hey, there must’ve been a reason your ex-girlfriend broke up with her ex. She got back into an abusive relationship leaving you, who loved her with all her heart.
MAKING HER REALIZE YOUR IMPORTANCE
All you can do here is play it cool and wait for her to respond to your love. It’s not as easy as it sounds. The less you seem desperate to her the more she would consider you love. All you need to do is make sure she knows you love her and that you care. But do not go overboard with it. She needs to understand you’re there for her, if not as a boyfriend, then as a friend. When she sees your concern towards her in front of what her present boyfriend is providing her, she might understand your importance and come back to you.
IS SHE WORTH IT?
The only question here is, is she really worth all the distress you are in because of her? You’re a good man who isn’t scared of loving. Don’t you deserve being loved as well? Isn’t it already hard for you to be in a toxic relationship?
Getting over someone you love is the toughest thing one can do. But loving yourself before someone is the best thing you can do.
IS WAITING THE CORRECT CHOICE HERE?
You could always wait for her to love you back, and maybe she will. You could wait for her to reciprocate to your love. Maybe she would understand what she has lost and get back to you. But this is a question which holds the power to waste your emotions, love and moreover your self confidence. All you need to do is ask yourself whether or not you need to waste your time pondering about your ex-girlfriend while she enjoys her abusive relationship.